Written by Sean Snyder
Healing is often perceived as a personal journey, something we undertake alone, within ourselves. While this perspective holds some truth, healing is profoundly influenced by those around us. As social beings, humans rely on others from birth for survival, comfort, and growth. Healthy, supportive relationships provide safety, love, and understanding — crucial elements for healing. In this blog post, I’ll share insights from my perspective as a therapist, emphasizing that this knowledge is relevant to everyone. We all contribute to the healing environment.
Children involved in child welfare often experience developmental trauma, shaped by separation and loss. Adoption-competent mental health services prioritize attachment and facilitate healing within the family context. These services address emotional, relational, and psychological challenges unique to child welfare involvement, rooted in attachment, trauma, identity, and grief.
As a clinical social worker, I view the world through a ‘person-in-environment’ lens, recognizing social environments as integral. People influence our identities at various life stages, and adults — whether personally or professionally involved with children, like myself as a therapist — play a vital role in a child’s healing journey after adversity. In social work, we affirm that it takes a village to raise a child and to care for that village. We rely on each other not just to survive but to thrive.
The idea for the blog title, “Healing in a Social Context,” was inspired by a talk I attended at the American Psychological Association Conference a few years ago, delivered by Bruce Wampold. His presentation, “Healing in a Social Context: The Importance of Clinician/Patient Relationship,” delved into what are often referred to as the “common factors” of therapy. These factors include elements like empathy and the quality of the therapist-client relationship. When you take a broader view, these elements are deeply embedded in the social fabric of our lives. I encourage you to watch his talk [here], where he shares vivid examples of social-contextual healing. I’ll share one of those examples below.
Bruce described a phenomenon in honeybees called “social fever.” When an infection arises in the colony, the bees work together by fanning their wings to raise the hive’s temperature, effectively eliminating heat-sensitive pathogens. By acting collectively to help the sick members of the hive, they also protect the entire colony from the spread of infection.
A more familiar example of social healing in the human world is the placebo effect. This occurs when your brain is convinced that a “fake” treatment, like a sugar pill, is real. What’s fascinating is that healing is often triggered by the warmth and empathy conveyed by the person administering the sugar pill, not the pill itself. (That said, don’t go handing out sugar pills to promote healing!)
So, what does this mean for mental health? One important takeaway is that while we have evidence-based mental health interventions that can significantly help children and their families, the success of these interventions depends on the people delivering them. Positive relationships amplify the effectiveness of these treatments. Relationships “bring the medicine,” help the medicine work better, and, in some cases, are the medicine.
As professional helpers, we become part of a person’s social context. We represent broader social systems and can offer a sense of belonging to those we support. Adoption-competent professionals, for example, understand that healing from early attachment disruptions happens through trust and consistency. Mental health and child welfare professionals have a unique role in fostering healing social environments that support long-term growth and recovery.
Here Are a Few Ways to Help:
If you’re reading this and don’t see yourself as a “professional helper,” know that you are a helper. You can play a meaningful role in someone’s healing journey. Be present. Listen without judgment. Show up. Fan your wings. And then show up again and again. Be part of the environment that fosters healing.
