Written by Cristina Tanzola and Sepherina Latthium
The majority of young people who spend time in foster care have experienced mental health services in some capacity. However, because of the challenges that bring young people into foster care, adult trustworthiness is frequently something they cannot rely on. This can spread into their relationships with child welfare workers, mental health professionals, and caregivers. Through the voices of those with lived experiences, we can better understand how adult trustworthiness impacts youth mental health participation.
The Power of Belief
Kenzie’s experience highlights a vital component of trust in therapeutic settings.
Kenzie Drake, age 20, experience in Michigan foster care system
This simple yet profound statement underscores the importance of validation in building trust. Many young people, particularly those in foster care or similar circumstances, may have developed deep-seated trust issues stemming from their past experiences. When a therapist actively listens and believes in their story, it can create a safe space that encourages openness and healing.
Trust is foundational in any relationship, especially in therapy, where vulnerability is essential. Kenzie’s story illustrates that the act of believing can be transformative. It empowers youth to open up about their struggles, fostering a deeper connection that can lead to more effective therapeutic outcomes.
The Challenge of Traditional Approaches
Faith’s perspective brings another layer to the discussion. She expresses frustration with mental health professionals who dive too deep into complex familial relationships during initial sessions.
Faith Sharp, age 25, 5 years in Missouri foster care systen
This speaks to the need for mental health providers to adopt a more nuanced approach to therapy.
For many young people, the conventional one-size-fits-all approach may not resonate. Instead, they might benefit from professionals who take the time to establish trust before delving into complex backgrounds. Understanding a young person’s current emotional state and fostering a rapport can lead to more productive sessions. When therapists prioritize building trust first, it can make all the difference in encouraging youth to participate actively in their mental health care.
The Role of Caregivers
Shayne (age 19), 5 years of experience in Kansas foster care, emphasizes the broader context of support systems surrounding youth. He argues that the actions and qualities of foster parents and guardians profoundly affect a child’s mental health. “Their overall actions and qualities will affect the mental health of a child,” he states, stressing the importance of being present and engaged. When caregivers show they genuinely care and are available for support, they provide a vital safety net for young people.
This support extends beyond basic needs. It creates an environment where youth feel valued and understood, reducing the risk of mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. Shayne’s assertion that “the best ability is availability” serves as a reminder that consistent support can significantly influence a child’s mental health trajectory.
Building a Culture of Trust
The testimonies of Kenzie, Faith, and Shayne collectively illustrate the critical role of trust in fostering youth engagement in mental health services. To effectively support young individuals, it is essential to cultivate environments where they feel believed, understood, and supported by both mental health professionals and caregivers.
As mental health services evolve, incorporating these insights can lead to more personalized and effective approaches. By prioritizing trust, professionals can break down barriers that prevent youth from seeking help, ultimately leading to healthier outcomes.
In conclusion, trustworthiness among adults—whether they are therapists, caregivers, or mentors—is paramount in shaping youth experiences in mental health services. By fostering a culture of belief, understanding, and support, we can empower young people to embrace their mental health journeys with confidence and hope.
About FosterClub and the Lived Experience (LEx) Leaders who contributed their perspectives to this blog: FosterClub is the national network for young people who experience foster care. In partnership with Lived Experience Leaders, FosterClub drives change in the child welfare system and provides direct support to children and youth
